Comments on: want

By: buzzworm

buzzworm — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 01:38:06 +0000

Lordy, lordy I’d like to be in your trench… smile.

By: Library Vixen

Library Vixen — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 22:47:32 +0000

buzzworm: YES! I think you have nailed it “stupidity inspiered blues.” I got em’ and I know will bounce back I am foot soldier of life. thank you for your comment.
xoxo.
Vixxy

By: buzzworm

buzzworm — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 22:36:35 +0000

Ah Vixen — a bad case of the stupidity inspired blues, it seems… if I had a nickel for every time, I’d retire. Methinks you’ll bounce back… there’s sooo much fire there… it won’t be going out…

Besides, some of us NEED you… bad.

By: Library Vixen

Library Vixen — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 08:33:55 +0000

Vancouver Sensuality: Vancouver is not really that far…

gary b: thank you thank you thank you for your empathy. It helps, just knowing I am not the only one, with a sex drive that makes me crazy and no where or no one to fill it. Soon, someone will be “enthusiastic for me,” if I can only let them be that way and I hope for you too. A dirty mind is a terrible thing to waste.

Oversexed Librarian: you nailed it my dear. Feeling a bit fraudulent at the moment. Mojo on the horizon, I can feel it, oh wait that’s just my vibrator.

The Panserbjørne: I am on it.

Wayward Librarian: Chin is up, besides my eyes I do have a nice smile too.

By: Wayward Librarian

Wayward Librarian — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 04:21:05 +0000

Chin up, darlin’!

That way I can see your eyes better.

Don’t forget about all of us wanderers that come to you for our daily worship.

By: The Panserbjørne

The Panserbjørne — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 19:15:10 +0000

It’s tough to comment on what needs to be done in your particular situation. I’ve never been the sort to go out and just hunt for a date, like you do, so I can’t tell you how to get back on that horse again (so to speak). I do know that sometimes I tend to stay at home and play hermit rather than going out and enjoying the outside world, and to get out of a funk like that I just have to force it. Get dressed, put on something hot and just hit the town. I’m sure you could manage the same. Good luck at recapturing that Vixxy magic.

– PB

By: Oversexed Librarian

Oversexed Librarian — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 18:55:47 +0000

Call it guilt, shame, what-have-you. It sounds like you were caught doing something you feel you shouldn’t have and now it’s screwing with your self-esteem (I realize that sounds trite, but there you have it). These things will effect good people by shaking up one’s psyche and creating a disconnect between what you want and what you feel you should do. One’s sensuality can only be healthily, joyfully and fully expressed when all feels right in one’s world. Doing something “bad” doesn’t make you a bad person. You WILL get your mojo back. Then you can scratch that itch again. And when you do…scratch the living shit out of it!

By: gary b

gary b — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 18:35:19 +0000

Well, I think you’re right about getting out of practice. I certainly feel that way also, and it really ticks me off at the “so THIS is gonna be my mid-life crisis?” level.

So far, I’ve think it comes down to finding enthusiasm. To date, I don’t think it’s a “use it or lose it” thing and I think it’s right there under the surface (lurking like the Loch Ness Monster), but I really do miss the shit out of my dirty mind.

I want (WTF, I need) someone to be enthusiastic for me, and I know that “spark” will re-ignite the enthusiasm within me that I’ve missed so much. I know it’s there, but trying to force it has turned out to be an exercise in frustration (thus spiralling in further).

Your mileage may vary.

By: Vancouver Sensuality

Vancouver Sensuality — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 17:37:10 +0000

I hate the meaninglessness too. Sex is so much better when there’s a mental connection.

Of course I’d be happy to try to help you solve that problem over a drink, but alas you are there and I am here.