lifetime averages
It just dawned on me that we are now over half way through 2010. Though it is only July– I feel the summer sun slipping away–the longer days are becoming shorter-darker again.
Taking inventory, cataloging my mid-year point I realize I have been considerably less slutty than last. I have not even been on Craigslist once this year, that is sort of astounding. Selectivity has played a larger role, than in last–which is great–if weren’t for all this sex I need to place somewhere–I have a lot of fucking to give and get.
I read in in an issue of Cosmo, that some robo-gym angel left behind–allowing me to subdue the slow death of riding a stationary bike to nowhere, that the average number of sexual partners for a heterosexual man is 7, and for women it is 4. This not an accurate source–a more accurate source, states men will have 20 and women 6. I think the women are fibbing a bit.
Six? That seem surprising to me, I certainly had more six just last year.
How does a slut decide when to fuck and who to fuck when attempting to exercise some selection in their life? This year there has only been four, or was it five, and I am really counting only three–but if I fuck New Years Eve guy one more New Years Eve, I may have to start counting him.
I feel pretty good about my sexual choices this year, far better than past choices. There was only one I should not have fucked, twice, but sometimes it takes twice to know. I think the key is to know before you actually fuck them–I’m working on that one.
So I am not average, according to the polls I am a super slut. In the last year and a half I have lived the sex life of two average heterosexual women. Lucky me. So, do lesbians have more sex partners than straight women? Probably and probably have a better quality of sex than the average straight woman. I have not been with any women this year. A route perhaps I should explore before years end.
Sadly the same poll showed that with each year of life we stop discussing our fantasies. I wonder if that extends beyond sexual fantasy? To me, this is worse than a lack of sex, without the fantasy, the hope, that anticipation of fucking–we die. In all my sex and all my love and all my lack of both at times–I have never stopped fantasizing about fucking, and have never given up hope of finding and having great, rich, romping fuck life with the one I love and who loves me.
The search continues, the loneliness for cock and love remain–but my legs still spread and my mind still runs wild with all the possible ways I would like to fuck and be fucked–and I hope this doesn’t change anytime soon.
I agree-very much.
Indeed Vixen…. my question is whether or not what I about doing with you counts a a partner… smile.
mmmm..nice post. Its always good to fit in somewhere.
I agree 100%!! I definitely think there are lesbians and gay men out there having a shitload more unbelievable sex than I am! lol
Sadly, not to spoil any fantasies, but a lesbian friend I have has the plainest, most vanilla boring sex imaginable.
I’ve also found that my lovers who have had more partners have experienced plainer sex. Perhaps they haven’t stayed with any long enough to explore beyond?
Hmmmm. I guess it’s nice to be above average… according to those numbers, I certainly am.
“what I THINK about”…
I am fortunate to have a lover who is my all and invigorates me sexually in every way. Twice a day is not enough and I am 58. She is the best Ive ever had and I am well about average according to the polls. LOve your blog, Ive always had a thing for librarians.
wb: oh? how so?
citydouble: hi sweet city, you need somewhere to fit?
Black Pearl: you so silly
randy:yeah–I am sure it is not just a matter of orientation, but a matter of person, personality. slutism.
marianne: Cheers to all the above average sluts! thanks for the read.
rtist: I knew what you meant babe–I don’t think we can actually count ourselvs as a partners until there has been some sort of fluid exchange–and that may just be my cum on my chair and yours on yours—miles apart.
Tom: love, you are indeed fortunate–and I am so happy for you–even though a little jealous, I long for it. Thanks for the comment. xoxo your library girl
Sounds to me like your average needs to be pushed up. NO ONE wants your sex average to be off, especially with potential local partners that would love nothing more than to be a notch (or 5) on your proverbial (or literal)bedpost.
Library V love, If I didn’t have her I would be flirting with you. You deserve all the best
For me, I was far under the “average” for most of my adult life. Then Veronica and I opened our marriage to others 2 yrs ago and like you, I’ve entered super-slut territory. Or as my wife likes to say, sexually festive!
I read those polls with a grain of salt. How is it even possible for women to average 6 partners and men 20?
Dan: potential local partners? Intriguing, tell me more.
Tom: thanks sweets.
hubman: nothing wrong with festive. So, my thought–is the women are straight up lying about their numbers.